wife wont give me a blow job

To have an enjoyable blowjob, you dont need to shove it right down her throat!

That is something usually seen in porn films and is often a ‘display of power and control’ by the guy more than the actual feeling he gets from it..

If she really does not want to do it, accept that this is her wish.

Kiasu

awww I like how you said that your a generous lover but if shes gagging you could go to a good sex store and buy a numbing spray where she just sprays it on her throat and it numbs it up and she cant feel a thing

hey fau,

I’ve been in the same situation. married 13 years, last got head from her about 6 years ago.

After 2 years I couldn’t take it any more, and started having an affair with the maid. Haven’t regret it cause I’m head addict.

If all else fails, start playing the field man.

If giving blow jobs is making her feel like she has to gag. She can try some gel call Lickety Stiff. It has an ingredient that relaxes the muscle in the throat. Maybe that can help you and her.

make sure you are clean as a whistle and promise not to shove it down her throat. Let her determine how much is comfortable, but if this is the biggest problem in the relationship, be grateful and don’t forget the roses.

all i can say if you both have to compromise and talk it thru dont force her to do sumting she doesnt want to because i, myself dont like to do them and you should just let her go as far as she wants and respect that

You aren’t really the only guy asking the same question… I had the same problem and I searched around the whole wide world web for an answer, and luckily got one. So you CAN make her give you a BJ but it’s not that easy to explain in a single post. Read this guide, i learned quite a lot from it http://funadvice.com/r/1588kofertn

Haha, got you man… I completely understand… My girlfriend didn’t want to give me a BJ from the start, and if you thought that convincing her to continue giving them was tough try convincing her to start doing them… And getting no BJ-s sucks, like reeeeally sucks. And mamaha is right about one thing, do not force her, or bribe her, or ask her as well, get down on her, be more intimate, you know, touch her here and there, lick her, when she starts liking that she’ll start returning. BTW Chris, dude, i stumbled on that book few months ago, its quite useful I read it, and I recommend it too… Good luck…