How do I get over someone I'm 100% in love with who cheated on me?

Welcome to the world of pain!

If you want to to be all grown up about it one possibility is to forgive him and saty with him. Lots of adults out there have lived through this - love is imperfect. Just be careful you don’t get a reputation as a walkover.

Something else you can do is to do something that would distract you until the horrible feeling dies down a bit… and it will die down with time. Try seeing more of your friends. Of course a lot of 30 year olds would just get drunk and sleep around for a while to cheer themselves up but I dont recomend it for you.

Everyones lost love, but he is a cheater, would you be able to forgive him anyway. Seriously spend your time getting over him rather than pining after him, you’ll just depress yourself and drive yourself mad. If you concerntrate on ignoring the image of him and keep yourself busy, and if you do think of him think of what an asshole he was. Everyone will admire you, it will even make him feel crap cos it looks like you don’t care, and then you will feel a pride within yourself. But it’s your choice