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How do I get over someone I'm 100% in love with who cheated on me?

Okay , so I fell in love with someone who cheated on me. Yes , I am 14. No, it is not impossible for a 14 year old to fall in love I’m a human being and I can feel love just as much as a 30 year old can. Now , we broke up , and I need to get over him , but I cant. It feels like someone ripped a hole in my chest and everyday that hole gets bigger and bigger. Please do not answer if you are going to say a 14 year old cannot feel love I already explained my veiws on that and I do not have the patience , or the tolerance for that kind of crap. Helpful answer would be appreciated. Thank-you.

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Answer #1

well been there done that bought the tshirt… I recommend to move on.. why do you think the term rebound was invented?? I dont recommend going into a relationship with someone else right off the bat b/c its messed up that you are using them. but I recommend dating .. lots of dating .. … that means going with different guys on dates >get to know them, have fun & 4get about whats his face !!! also hanging out with your friends will help you out a lot.. the more you occupy yourself by going out and socialising the more the pain numbs and the less you think about that guy!!! plus by dating you might actually find a great guy who wont cheat on you & that will treat you like a queen or princess.

Answer #2

Welcome to the world of pain!

If you want to to be all grown up about it one possibility is to forgive him and saty with him. Lots of adults out there have lived through this - love is imperfect. Just be careful you don’t get a reputation as a walkover.

Something else you can do is to do something that would distract you until the horrible feeling dies down a bit… and it will die down with time. Try seeing more of your friends. Of course a lot of 30 year olds would just get drunk and sleep around for a while to cheer themselves up but I dont recomend it for you.

Answer #3

Everyones lost love, but he is a cheater, would you be able to forgive him anyway. Seriously spend your time getting over him rather than pining after him, you’ll just depress yourself and drive yourself mad. If you concerntrate on ignoring the image of him and keep yourself busy, and if you do think of him think of what an asshole he was. Everyone will admire you, it will even make him feel crap cos it looks like you don’t care, and then you will feel a pride within yourself. But it’s your choice

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