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How do I forget??

Heres my situation: I was with this guy tyler for a long time, we were together for months! And I thought he loved me, at least he really liked me.. I was a virgin when I met him, soon as we did have sex, about a month after, he left me.. He didn’t really even break up with me he just ignored me, (we weren’t even really going out because he said that it would never work because we went to different schools)

In the beginning: I met him in summer school and he still did everything he could to keep in contact with me long after summer school was over, we would talk every day for hours and hours on the phone.. Sometimes we had phone sex.. Then one day he made it so I could see him, I snuck out and went to his friends house who lived just down the street, and he was there waiting for me, he was so charming and awesome that I ended up giving in to him. After we had sex, he would call me every day he even said he loved me, but then about a month after I gave it all to him he completely ignored me.

Now, I have a new boyfriend and everything is awesome, I love dalton so much! But just the other day, tyler called me and we started talking and one thing led to another and we had phone sex… Then he told me he was sorry for not talking to me, that he was just busy with school and family.. And that he wanted to see me soon because he misses me.

Just the other day, I sent him a message on a social site saying I wanted to see him, and he never replyed, I know he read it. And then I went through his a social site thing, and I found out that he was with another girl the whole time.. Ad he has ben for a while.. I really did love him.. I know I shouldn’t have fallen for him in the first place, but it was hard not to..

I dont know what to do, I want him to talk to me, I thought I was completely over him, and I would have moved on, but he called me the other day… And now I cant stop thinking about him.. I dont want to let go, but I know I need to because hes obviously moved on, and now I have a new boyfriend and have been with him for a while and I love him, but I still have attachments to tyler.. How do I forget about him??

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Answer #1

Clearly he’s just playing games with you , he wants you but he wants other girls aswell, so really your not that special to him and he doesnt sound like to great of a guy for cheating and wanting more when he already has,he is with someone, your no better though, have respect for the other girl, whether you know her or not, what if your boyfriend now was doing that to you behind your back..hmm wondering now if its possible?, its not worth hooking up with this guy, you have a boyfriend but if you don’t want to be with him do the honorable thing and just break up with him and if you really want TYLER then tell him he needs to do the same thing. Otherwise just walk away and dont look back, block him from everything and avoid him if you see him, hes no good for you, guys like that will play you until finally your used up and they move on, remember that. Have some respect for you, you fucked he bailed decided he wanted more, lied and sucked up to you and you fell for it, your smarter and stronger then that ,(Ihope)..Just leave it alone

Answer #2

I gave everything to him

Your virginity isn’t everything. Do you know how many girls lose their virginity to the finger quotes wrong person? Around 99%…

99% think the guy is special 99% think its love 99% find out the hard way 98% are able to move on 97% make the same mistake again 96% think it’ll be different the second time

Maybe in your case, its all a just matter of emphasis, and self-respect. The guy nailed you, then start ignoring you shortly after. This should give you a strong indication of his character, rather than just placing emotional attachment on his hymen-tearing ability.

Answer #3

I gave everything to him so I still have attatchments to him, I have a boyfriend now and I love him, so I know I need to foreget about the one guy (tyler) but when iwas almost over him, he brought himself back into my life and now he expects me to leave him alone..

Answer #4

Okay first hes just using you… second you have to move on the way he did you wrong like that? like seriously wtf is that that should be enough to hate the guy?? and your probably just attached to him because you lost your virginity to him it happens just move on forget about him you need to have zero contact with him and try spending more time with your boyfriend now pay attention to him and you just might be surprised its gunna take time but it’ll happen

Answer #5

cant say I have captain lol. seeing as I didnt even read past the second sentence in this one.

TL:DR means too long; didnt read. meaning, can you summarize it in a short sentence or 2?

Answer #6

never tell someone your pregnant unless you really are…thats a great way for a bad rumor to start.

…haven’t read her other threads, hmm?

Answer #7

never tell someone your pregnant unless you really are…thats a great way for a bad rumor to start.

can we get a TL;DR please?

and long time no see captainassassin lol

Answer #8

For starters, tell your current boyfriend that you had phone sex with another guy… if he doesn’t dump you for that… we’ll go from there.

As for the other guy, tell him you’re pregnant. See if he keeps calling you after that…

Answer #9

what?

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