How do I ask ex boyfriend to have his baby?Fertillity+he's shipping out?

Can we ask that unless you know how to spell the word epiphany you not use it?

What exactly happened to make you believe that you being a mother would be in the best interests of a child (because after all this is not about you right? It is about what would be best for the baby). Are you financially stable? Do you have a plan of how to support this baby on your own? Who is going to take care of the baby when you’re at work or school? Who is going to provide for you when you’re on maternity leave? What happens if the baby is sick and you have to stay home? Who takes care of the baby then? Or who takes care of your job then? What happens if you get fired? Can you actually support yourself and a child on a minimum wage job and have enough savings to tide you through if you lose your job? And it’s going to be a minimum wage job, because you are barely 18. Which means no further education. Or will everything magically work out?

well thats a very curious situation you have going on here and well if your young presuming under the age of 18 then well you wont be able to support the baby financially and this will cause you some problems even tho this idea of urs is well I don’t know how to put it (lol) try not do it because I dont think your ready for it cause a baby needs a lot of things like food clothing diapers a stroller tons of blankets the thing wer the baby sleeps (the word for this totally escapes me) toys!!! and most importantly love from both parents =/ think about how tuff its going to be on the baby only having his mommy looking out for him

How is what you are proposing any sort of future for the baby?? Plus were is he being deployed to?? What if he doesnt want to have your baby?? Dont you think he would have asked you if he wanted you to have his baby ( for he is freezing his sperm and is thinking of him possibly dying)?? And like you said you dont have much of a future so what can you provide for that baby?? What if he lives and doesnt want to be a part of the babys life>>are you going to lie to the kid?? PLus every kid needs their father?? you are purposly denying that kid one! It seems to me that your trying to use that baby for your own advantage/to make yourself feel better abt your life!!! WHich is just wrong..

ok im a spiritual person… im getting the sence that he has short cut darkish blond hair cut like a buz with brown or green eyes… you have either red or brown hair with grey eyes… if im wrong oh well but you just wait for the right time to talk to him… use the old jewish guilt…it will work and if he says no try putting it a diferent way… if he still says no then screw him! if he says no its not ment to be

DONT DO IT! While you two are young he will want to go out a party and he will not want to have a baby from stopping his plans. You will probly be the one left with the baby then you will start wanting him to stay with you and the baby. That will only push him away.