How can I understand my suicidal sister?

well she has problems. WE ALL DO. its hard to see what others are going through but just keep in mind that shes hurting and the best way to make somebody get better is to let them do it on their own because if you make them feel better, theyll just be needy

YOU get some counceling! You need tools to deal with all of this, to help you know what your personal limits are, to deal with any guilt that may come up once those limits are hit. A councelor can help you work through the feelings of having to deal with this situation for so many years. I’m sure there is some resentment in there, too…it’s time to help yourself…

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You’ve tried right? If you know you’ve tried you can be happy with what you’ve done. I think you should try to make an effort to get her some sort of doctor or psychologist. That could make a huge differance in the way she is. You dont wanna lose your sister It isnt her fault you said so yourself. So maybe you can try to get her some really good professional help. Dont get in her way but dont completely give out either Just be in the middle and try to keep your balance.

I see how you can feel that way, but staying away from her isn’t the answer. Try helping her, even if she doesn’t want it. God would want that. I can see how bad you get hurt, and how she has acted AND acts, has definently taken a toll on you, and your family. Just pray to God, and ask him to be with you, every step of the way. Don’t give-up on family, and try to help her relize that suicide isn’t the answer. Don’t yell, and don’t bug her, just help her when you can. Let her know you love her. Just keep on praying, and everything will be ok in the end. She will come around, if she doesn’t don’t let it bring you down, still have strong hope, faith and love. Don’t give up on her. I will have you in my prayers, may God be with you and your family. :]

• Advice Girl, (:

You can’t let her illness tear you apart make sure she takes her mechine if you haveto hold her mouth open pop the pill in andtell her to say uh when she’s finish and check under her tonuge.