How can I get past this?

Hi, I was wondering if anyone could help. I lost my virginity to my ex who was eomotionally abusive and pushed me to get engaged to him. I feel terrible not being a virgin because it goes against my beliefs and I always thought I’d wait until marriage. I’m angry at my ex too. My dad just found out I had sex with him (this happened a year ago) and he told me that I wouldn’t go anywhere else other than to school and the house. He told me that I would live by these rules or get out., He later asked me to forgive him because he said those things in anger. I am angry at him too. I have trouble relating to my current boyfriend because I am still plagued by feelingsof shame and guilt over losing my virginity to such a terrible person in such a shameful way. I don’t know how to get over this. I feel horrible, please help.

Answer #1

Get on with ur life..I regret havein sex when i was 13 everyday of my life..I hate my ex for it..But i finally learned how to get over it.. I may not be a Virgin down there but in my head i still am..I just forgot about it..U can do it I know u can..

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