how can I get my bully to stop bullying me without getting hurt?

laugh at his attempts to hurt you as if they are pathetic, which they probably are. act like it dosent bother you and you have way better things to do. act like you really don’t have time for his immature games and he will soon see that people are starting to see him as a jerk and he will either stop all together, or move onto somebody else. hopefully.

:) good luck. hes obviously an idiot.

You need to tell, he wont kill you. If he hasn’t stopped after you ask him mustiple times I highly doubt he’s just gonna stop out of the blue. I’d talk to a teacher or a principal. Cause it’s not right for anyone to have to deal with bullying.

Yes, you really need to tell somebody. Your parents/guardians need to be told, and you really need to report it to your head teacher (or one that you feel you can approach) maybe do this with your parents.

He is not going to kill you, he is using this as an intimidation tactic to hold power over you.

It will take a bit of courage to tell somebody what is happening, but it will be the best thing to do. You are entitled to go to school in a safe environment.

Good luck.

im not to sure if this will help but try going a ditterent way then the way you always go. and hes not going to kill you hes just tring to intimidate you. dont fall for it, it will most likely get you no where. if that dosent work then try to find the courage to tell someone. remember to not be afraid :))

best of luck to you!!!

awe this question makes me so sad :( I just finished the book “nineteen minutes” by jodi picoult, which is about bullying and it’s so sad!

anyway, if he’s bullying you, there is no doubt in my mind he is probably bullying others, too! you should talk to an adult, and make sure that something happens. let them know that he threatened you, so they know how serious the situation is. if you don’t tell them everything they won’t know enough to help you, and won’t be able to give you the help you need.

littledarling makes a good point, you’re probably not the only one he’s bullying, and that’s another sympton of being bullied, it can make you feel alone and helpless. If you can take that step of telling someone, then the problem could be investigated and maybe others will come forward too or be identified.

It might even help the person who is doing the bullying. I mentor at my school, and was approached last year by a younger girl who was being bullied, well the problem was investigated, the girl who was doing the bullying eventually admitted it, and was shown the affect her actions were having on people. Over time she has really changed. Point is, taking that first step of telling someone can really make positive changes to both the bully and the bullied.

has he hit you? did he make a mark or summet?

go the police mate and file a report for assault… and if you have told him numerous times to stop hes also harrasing you ;)

I hate bullies.. grrr they stink!

I used to get picked on in school a lot umm I would tell a teacher whats going on your mom and dad anyone and go from there but if you still get picked on you could try talking it out with the bully but if that dont work just stand up for yourself to the bully fighting is never the answer but sometimes its the only choice and if you have to fight the bully you can bet he wont bother you anymore but remember fighting is always the last choice if it keeps going on you may have to get the police involved anyway I hope I have helped you and I am sure things will be ok take care