how can adoped child live with birth mother

I really dont like adopted parents unless the child was given up by the parent and not taken,I have two girls that went for adoption it was awfull I was pregnant at the time of my prosideings I kept my son but no matter how much I fought for them they still were placed can you answer that one cause im puzzled,its all a big money gimmic why cant adopted people except they cant have children and get an animal,they wont get no luck for what there doing…

My ex tricked me into signing my rights away to let his new wife adopt my daughter. Since then I have not been aloud to see her or talk to her..which I was lied to about to begin with. My daughter is almost 12 and is heartbroken that she cant see me or talk to me and her other siblings. I respect people that adopt children dont get me wrong but I was a part of my daughters life for 8 years then they took this from me so some people cant just be happy for a few years til they are 18. My daughter wants to be with me but im not sure there is much I can do. Im not by any means unfit as a mom. I have 2 boys that live with me and mean the world to me but my life is part empty without my daughter. In my situation I believe there should b a solution to getting my daughter back and I believe the child should be given an option whether they are adopted or not..im sorry but what is in the best interest of the child is not always the case..

Also if she is adopted by this new family then unless she can prove her adoptive family unfit then there is really nothing she can do but then going that route might cause a ton of problems like being removed from her current home and having to live in a whole different foster home. She should just stay put unless there is abuse and or neglect in her current home. I adopted 2 kids and it would be extremely hurtful to me if my daughter wanted to live with her birth mom after I have loved and nourished her after 10 years. She should just be greatful that her adoptive mom is allowing the visits and just wait the 2 1/2 years out.

I think the only way is if the foster parents sign custody of the daughter to the birth mother, or you wait till she turns 18.