My Mom made me break up with him

Timi and I are Engaged . he doesnt drink or do drugs .. we have always followed her rules about us dating . and not all my friends are emo some are “preps” or whatever but they arent bad people most of them raley even get in trouble for little things .

explain this to her, and you can actually tell her to meet your friends an get to know them better (it’s better than judging without even knowing who they are)

Dude I wub you buddy you can wib wis me and I hate tammy she can kiss my big fat WEBB SS!!! She doesn’t need to be a BTCH like that she p*sses me off I still wub you my mom does the same thing

dont let her rule your life, who’s life are you living? how old are you? according to your profile your the same age as me, 16? okay so she might not see that your in love with somebody, chances are he isnt your future husband, but then again, take the chance… its your life remember, not your mothers. im moving out next week, because I made the decision, I put my foot down, stand up for yourself, dont let her make you unhappy, if you do make mistakes along the way, you can only learn from them.

take care xXx

I’m 24 years old and I have 2 children of my own. what your mother is doing is WRONG! It’s called emotional abuse. She actually says she wishes she had an abortion? that’s messed up. your mother has serious problems…does she drink or do drugs? and how old are you hon? if you need to talk, email me okay? mommy1314@yahoo.com

You’ve already posted this thread once. There’s no need for another copy, 1 day later…

not completely anyways just the boyfriend part!!

I would just move out. if your mom gets so controllable that shes telling yyou to change your friends and your boyfriend, its a sign telling you to move on.

Amblessed is pretty much onto it.

In reality there is the “good sensible side” and there is the “not so good sensible side”

Plus how would you know if he is your future husband? I wear black, but I don’t do it overboard like all goth or emo or whatever. Many emo’s say be yourself. So, be yourself and don’t be emo. It’s a stupid fad/image. The fact is, teenagers are emotional. Hell, I went through some serious depression (hospitalised several times) I got out of it ok.

No parent is perfect. Take mine for instance. My mum tried to stop dad drinking so she put these pills in EVERYBODYS food (all cooked in one pan/pot) by crushing them up and putting them in. What they did is when you would drink alcohol, it would react with these pills and make your heart pump really really fast and youd get all flushed and sweaty and dizzy etc. Now dad only ever drank beer. Which was lucky because if he EVER had stronger stuff (wine is even borderline) like Bourbon/Whiskey or vodka he would be dead no questions asked. I even made sure not to drink during that time I tried a few tims at first but MAN I felt like CRAP. To this day she still denies it.

So I think your mum is trying to look after you but just takes her frustrations out on you. re you hanging round with a dodgy crowd? Does your boyfriend drink or do drugs? These are a parents concern.

Just realise this. Whatever you do now, is just temporary. In MOST cases you can change stuff. If he is your first boyfriend believe me there will be others. You wont think so but its true. Plus know that in the future whe you have a job and can support yourself, you will be on your own.