My whole family hates me because I am a goth and emo

maybe if you sit down your parents and explain that you arn’t this bad person, maybe they will listen. just explain to them that you are what you are on the outside but on the inside you are no different then what you used to be. your family probly dosn’t hate you they just don’t know how to ajust to who you r. just a suggestion 4 u!

Family is the most important, if any thing is getting in the way of you and your family being as one, then you don’t need it. If it’s meant to be it will be…Family comes first…

what is a goth and emo, I am not sure what that is? I feel the same way sometimes I feel like my mom hates me because I am not girlly, I am more into the gothic theme!

sit down with your parents and tell them that you are still a good person and that if they really loved so much they would except you for who you are. make sure they know how this is making you feel. tell them you are what you are and nothing they can say is going to change that. when talking to them speak with confidence but try and be as nice as possible. tell them just because or your beliefs and how you dress is different to them doesn’t meen you are bad or are any different.

stand up to them try to spend as much tme with them as ossibl and talk to them so thetll realize thisis our son and we love him he is who he is theyll take time to get used to it ut they will your family loves you deep down family is an unconditional love and tell them that no matter if they dont love you u will always love them no mattre what and give them a bear hug and tell them you love them

stand up to them and say this is who I am

it really works =]

..tell them to love you for who you are… yeahh.. thats sorta cheesy..

you should talk to them, ask why the way you dress is such an issue, explain to them you are still the sameperson. Theyre your family at the end of the day they should be fine with you the way you are. Hope I helped :]

be positive, speak with your family, explain what you like, but:

• don’t frighten them
• smile, be cool
• don’t get mad if they tell you something you don’t like
• be patient
• don’t go “too far” with your clothes, try to be simple

lol I had the same problem… for a short while.

I enjoy antagonizing people. so when my family said they didnt like me being goth I said”would you rather I be suicidel” and they didnt say anything.

so I pretended to be suicidel, making the knot in the rope juuust a little bit the wrong way. cursing in my room at 12 am to attract attention then they c the rope failed.

ACCIDENTALLY getting a gun with only blanks in it.

falling over right before the knife gets me.

haha. they learned to love the goth me.

This Happens wi me and my dad , he thinks im a ‘punk’ no matter how many times i’ve trieed to explain he wont lìsten,which angers me