Hate my husband's family

dga3330 I know how you feel, I am in the same boat after 15years I cant get rid of the hatred I feel for them and wish the same worst things, we left the city and they followed now we are planning to leave the country, I would rather live away from my own family and miss them than be close to his and be miserable

well its not particularily nice to think that, but I think its okay(kinda) to dislike your husband’s family. just try and keep your feelings to yourself?

it’s okay for you to not to like them… but don’t sabatoge his relationship with his family. they are his family. you can still tell him how you feel about them though. he is your husband, and you should be able to talk to him about anythying.

we have talked about it allot. its many of reasons why I hate them so much. they dont like me either for no real reason. if I could type the whole situation I would. if someone willing to read it all, then youll see what im talking about. and then I should get a different answer thats what I really want to do but I dont think no one will read everything