Am I ready to get fingered?

hi my boyfriend is 16 and im 14 hes fingered girl and had sex before. I told him I didnt want to have sex yet that I wasnt ready . I want him to finger me and he wants to also. but im scared. im short im only like 5’2 and hes like 6’0 foot. ihe has already told me that he would go slow and stuff but im still scared I havent ever made out with someone yet eaither. I love him a lot but I just don’t know what to do when he fingering me . will he just start out with two fingers or 1. help!!! pleasee oh and also will I loose my virginty if he does finger me.

Answer #1

I agree with jazlovestoskate. you definitely need to slow down. at 14 years old, the LAST thing you need to be thinking about is anything sexual. you should be focusing on school, family, and friends. not your boyfriend. I say that because in a year or two, that guy wont be there for you anymore. youre too young to know what love is, and you would only hurt yourself if you go through with this and arent completely sure. you want to save an experience like that for someone special. and even though you may think this guy is special, he isnt. trust me, I lost my virginity at 16, and even got pregnant. I know EXACTLY what youre going through right now. and to be honest, I love my son more than anything in the world, but I really wish I wouldve waited. its not worth it sweetie. be a child while you still can.

Answer #2

at your age you should probably slow down if the age of consent in your country is 16 he is over that, and your under so he can be charged with rape wether you agred to the sex or not also no, your virginity is broken when a male penis enters your vagina he may however break your hymen when fingering you (if you still have it)

also remember to LEARN about sex before you go off having it or start getting sexually active learn about as well as a male and female reproductive system birth control, contraception, pregnancy and sti/stds don’t have sex until you know the consequences involved with it because the main reason why kids and teens get pregnant and get stds is because of a lack of sex education

Answer #3

Well, making out is the first thing you need to start off with. You cant skip a chapter.

No, you wont lose your virginity. You are not a virgin if a penis has entered your vagina. He may break your hymen and you may bleed…but you are still a virgin. Its best to start off with one finger. As you will still be tight. Just take things slow…and dont do anything to are not comfortable with. If you dont feel comfortable with what he is doing, tell him.

Answer #4

dont do anything you are not happy with. if you do let him finger you tell him to start with 1 finger , take it slow, to use lubricant. make sure he will stop if you ask him to. toni

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