How can I show him that I like him without scaring him off?

I met this guy and three days after I’ve known him I began crushing on him hardcore. Well, he seems a tad bit…girly but he hangs out with diff girls all the time, but never me. Were friends yeah but I want to be more than that. Im worried that If I tell him how ifeel ill scare him off. What should I do?

~~Clueless girl from Cali

Answer #1

Hey there is a simple way to approach this. Lead him into questions to get a reaction from him like if your saying goodnight say something like dream of angels tonight, and if he comes out and says something like you know I’ll be dreaming about you at least it’s a clue that he may not be gay or that he might be feelin the vibe youy give off. Now we have to address another problem we have here. You said you love him! After three days! That is a little extreme. Don’t get me wrong I do believe in love at first sight but in this day and age it’s time to get practical. It’s ok to say I like him, and to want it to be more than just physical but it’s not cool to drop the L bomb like that. If you do you could be setting yourself up for a hard fall back to reality. And the whole he might be gay thing. Look just do a little recon work. Casually ask friends or even him if he is more in touch with watching Monday night football or Will and Grace. Or just be direct. If you guys are friends he should’nt get that upset. But yeah honey back away from the Love button because nothings worse than you saying it and feeeling it and the other person just staring at you as if you had a third eye! So becareful and keep me posted. Signed SERENITY

Answer #2

Dear,i think you should take things slowly and let things have there natural order.you have to be nice and real to him

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