How do I tell him I like him without scaring him?

Ok, so there’s this guy and I like him a lot. We’ve been talking for about a couple weeks now about 5 or 6 maybe more and up until last wednesday he stopped talking to me. I mean he’s not a virgin but I am and I was wanting to give myself to him…yes I know virginity is sacared and I should wait and it should be with the one I love and well I do love him and we have this bond or a sort of connection and when I’m with him I feel safe and nothing in the world matters but me and him. When I around him he gets quiet and he’s definitely NOT the quiet type. He also gets that look in his eyes that’s saying I want you so bad but I don’t want to just do you I want to give you the world and more. Last Wednesday when we were hanging out he kept giving me hugs and we stared into each others eyes for at least 5 minutes straight even though my friends were there and were talking to us we still didn’t break but anyway I want to tell him how I feel but I don’t know if I should cause…well he’s got all these other girls chasing after him and I don’t know who they are or how he is with them soi don’t want to look dumb and say oh I like you so much you don’t even know and then there’s another girl that he’s in to. So can you help me???

Answer #1

DO NOT TELL HIM YOU LIKE HIM FIRST! saying it first will give him the power and show your vulnerability. And the reason that he stopped talking to you is because he may be not so into you anymore and sex with him won’t change. There may be other girls in the picture, you don’t need him. Don’t offer him sex until he is ready to commit with you and only you. Unless you like to have sex and you don’t care that he’ll dump you in the end, then go for it. But if you want him to want you, treat him like you don’t give a f& about him and other girls. Guys love to chase and if he’s really into you, he’ll come around.

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