How come when things happen between people it affects one and it changes their attitude in life and everything?

uhhhhh O.o okaaaayyy

Thats just the way it is…

Everyone handles situations differently, some may take things lightly and others badly. Also what happens affects a persons view on everything. One can learn from an event happening and simply change how they think about things.

It does not always affect everything in their life. It this pearson that the conflict happened with was a big part of this individuals life, then it can because it’s like loosing a big part of someone, like half of your heart or something like that. Sometimes it’s hard to move on without that pearson, or sometimes it’s hard to get out of a certain rutine, so it’s like they have to start all over. But sometimes it does not, sometimes it just affects them because they might have trusted this pearson, or might have had plans with them. I guess they can be affected depending on the conflict and how strong the relationship between the people was.

I think sometimes when there is a loss of trust or someone gets hurt some people just don’t want to get hurt again. It’s not healthy to always run from your fears but if you get burned once sometimes it’s hard to go back.

Very true

thank you so much :)

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