going down on my boyfriend

I been going with this guy for almost a year. We have had sex and everything, and he even ate me out a couple of times. Lately when we have had sex he would ask me to go down on him and I would say no…am I being fair to him, I mean I dont ask him to go down own me he just does it because he wants to…I just dont know what to do should I or should I not…

Answer #1

you should know that guys (well..most of the guys) love their girls and just want to see her getting excited. In a way, that’s what he is trying to do: Make you feel pleasure. It’s not all about going downstairs and eat the fruit, but for us guys, we just want to get the girls excited. Then, some guys ask for a payment. I think this is your situation. He just wants to have an awesome pleasure just like you did. If you are concern about pubic hair, odor, and taste, talk to him and make him take shower per day (like everybody should:P) If the taste bothers you, try flavor condoms.

All in all, you should just talk about it. Sex and relation can easily be disturbed but also easily rebuilt. Conversation about oral sex can be discuss with the topics I gave at the top.

Answer #2

I was shy too at first but its fun to do and he will love it! but dont do it if you dont want to

Answer #3

you should, makes the sex a lot more interesting

Answer #4

Go for it he will love it and you will enjoy seeing him love it

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