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I got a boyfriend a couple of weeks ago & soo did my friend ali. Our other friends keep pressuring to do stuff with our boyfriends, for example ali hasnt kissed him in front of them so in the cafeteria they were pushing them together and not letting them go till they kissed on lips, they even sed 2 them that wee wanna rush intoo sex . Me and courtney think that our boyfs will dump us if thy keep doing it. They noe there annoying us but carrying on.. What shoulld we do?

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Answer #1

Don’t rush into anything. If they are going to keep being like that, then they aren’t good friends. Might wanna try to find some new ones. It’ll make your life a whole lot easier. If they are like that all the time anyway. If not just tell them to stop bc it is disrespectful to you and your friend, much less to both of your boyfriends. It is your business how far you go and what you do in front of them and whatnot…not theirs. Don’t let them push you into anything. If they get away with it once they will keep trying and push you into everything. Don’t let them control your life and your decisions. It is your life. Not theirs.

Answer #2

u shudnt worry bout sex rite now lol and dont do it your too yuongeven im too young lol im only 14 and you dotn want to get sti and stuff soo dotn do it you know you can always lie to your friends lol

Answer #3

I agree with evieloveshistoryx just tell the to get lost this girl that I did hangout with always pushed me around and pressureing me so I tole her off and said go away thats bull sht I dont know why you did that I can do watever I want to do so back off and leave me the hll alone

Answer #4

Both of you kids are definitely too young to worry about that anyway. It doesn’t matter if you get dumped at such a young age– rather, dump THEM instead. It’s not a traumatic event that’ll change your whole life. You’re barely teenagers, and you are considering sex with your boyfriends just so they “won’t dump you”.

If you’re going to to things under pressure so easily often, then life’ll be hard for the both of you.

Answer #5

Don’t be friends with those kinds of people. Just tell them ‘you can do what you want with your boyfriends when you get one, but I’m okay with mine so just don’t pressure me.’ You do what you want, its your life, not theirs. Tell them to get lost.

Answer #6

dont du anyfink you dont want to do, belive me I’ve bin there im still a virgin but my old boyfriend (we still have a thing between us though) tried to du all sorts of stuff wiv me and I sed no, he keeps asking but stand strong and if they luv you they wonot make you du it x x x

Answer #7

I ment courtney btw I dunno why I put ali :/

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