How can I break off this friend with benefit situation?

We all go through that i’m half way going through something like that now. You need to meet more male friends it sound like but, dont become a hoe but learn a women worth because the bible does say :he that find a wife findth himself a good thing” and I think it true. Some one told me just because you love someone does mean you ment to be with them and that also true. Let him go with consent “no strigs attacted” it want be easy but time heal all wounds. It ok to cry and cry as much as you need to hour by hour, minuted by minuted , day by day because crying mean accepting and every thing there is a season and all the pain is a reason it will make you wise someday. So don’t give up and don’t give in becausee it be ok. Thank about your self of Love You and please stop byeing him. cause the bible say a man that don’t work don’t eat

You know the answer to this, you’re just are looking for someone to tell you what you already know… but what i say isn’t going to change what you think… if you want to fix it you have to do this yourself! Ofcourse he is getting the best of both worlds, because he can sex you and then sex other girls on the side because you are not going out… you are not going to ever get over him until you drop him completely… i dont even think you can be friends because all he will want from you while you are hanging out is to sex it up… so you should really consider moving on and finding another to screw once so you can get your mind of him… because thats all this seems to be right now is sex attachement…. because how can your really love someone that treats you sh*tty?

Thats just my 2 cents!

Good luck

jason

He treats you bad because YOU allow him to. You are showing him that you are insecure and very needy, and that you cant stand on your own two feet without him. Love isnt suppose to be one-sided. The longer you allow him to use you, the harder it will be to move on! You have to start respecting yourself before you will get respected! He doesnt want you back…why would he when he can have you anytime he wants!!!

You must live here in my area. The Bay Area. If your man is into the “Thug Life” as you put it then you made his day when you did the whole friends thing with benefits. Guys around here can make a living off of a girl (or sometimes girls) popcorn pimpin’. If you dig the guy you need to figure out if this life is right for you. If you want to go further in life and get the stable home with the good paychecks coming in and a man that isn’t sagging his pants around his ankles telling your parents that they can “F” themselves, then you need to move on before he goes one further and manages to get a baby in you.

i think you should just try to forget about him and not talk to him aolt and try new apportunirties