How to not feel weird around my new friend with benefits?

You dont rate questions! I asked a logical question, and you totally ignored it!

Are you looking for a relationship with this guy, or is it just all about sex? Seems to me thats all he wants from you!When you are feeling weird around him, it means something, and you shouldnt just ignore it!

Evaluate your own motives, expectations and you should be able to talk honestly with your sexual partner. How do you feel about the relationship with your partner that you are in at the moment? What do you think might happen as a result of having sex? Do you really understand the potential consequences? The physical and emotional consequences? How do you think you will feel about your partner and more importantly, about yourself? Right now – how do you feel about your partner? Do you trust, respect and love him? Are those feelings mutual? Do you feel pressured to have sex? Is there pressure from your partner, friends or any other reason? Do you feel that you and your partner can make a decision right now and does it feel comfortable to you? *Can you talk openly to your partner about your decision?

Bad Reasons for sex too soon: · A need for sex. · You want the person to love you. · Social pressure to perform. · Nothing more to talk about. · Boredom. · A curiosity to find out if there’s any chemistry. · You want to make someone else jealous. · To persuade your partner to leave his or her current partner. · You’re challenging a dare. · An attempt to solidify the relationship.

If you are having sex for all the WRONG reasons, maybe you need to reevaluate your life!