How do I forget my past?

Right now he is barely talking to me. He says he hates when I say “I don’t know” or “I don’t remember” he says when I say those things he feels like I’m hiding something. Sometimes I’ll remember something about my ex but I’m not sure if it really happened so I’ll tell him what I remembered and that’s how the story changes. I’m not even sure if what I told him is what actually happened. I have tried so hard to forget and now I’m trying to remember so I can help my boyfriend feel better but all it’s doing is making things worse.

Right now he is barely talking to me. He says he hates when I say “I don’t know” or “I don’t remember” he says when I say those things he feels like I’m hiding something. Sometimes I’ll remember something about my ex but I’m not sure if it really happened so I’ll tell him what I remembered and that’s how the story changes. I’m not even sure if what I told him is what actually happened. I have tried so hard to forget and now I’m trying to remember so I can help my boyfriend feel better but all it’s doing is making things worse.

just tell him everything you member you know thats all i can think of to do like tell him you tryed hard to forget n thats why you say you cant member cause its the truth

Okay thank you :) I hope we work out. He is leaving in less than a month for basic training and if he leaves not trusting me, we won’t last. But I will try what you said, thank you :)

Okay thank you :) I hope we work out. He is leaving in less than a month for basic training and if he leaves not trusting me, we won’t last. But I will try what you said, thank you :)

Ask him what his trip is because getting worked up over something so insignificant is stupid. It was 7th grade, that was a long time ago. Just tell him what you told us and tell him that it was such a long time ago that you can barely remember every detail. Explain to him that you burried those memories deep and it was a traumatic experience for you. If it’s a “perfect relationship” and you’re sure he’s “the one”, then he’ll be understanding and everything will work out.