Fighting at home.

I FIGHT WITH MY MOM a lot. AND I ALWAYS RUNAWAY. SOMETIMES I FEEL LIKE I SHOULDNT LIVE IN MY HOUSE. what you THINK?

Answer #1

Consider:
Growing up is very difficult—for both you and your parents. They remember a little bundle of joy that they held and nurtured as a baby and now they see a budding adult. These days, children face things and know about things that their parents would never have imagined at the same age. The teenagers of today look older, act older and want to be older than their counterparts did just 20 years ago. It is the desire of all parents for their children grow up in the way that they should go (loving, caring, respectful, and being of good solid character). It is necessary that you truly understand that your parents have your best interests at heart. They will withhold privileges, set limits, and raise you to the best of their ability (neither they nor you are perfect), but be Thankful - They Care - many, many, many don’t. Ask them for guidance and seek to understand what truly motivates their decisions. One of the best ways to prove your maturity and prove that you are ready for more trust is to be respectful of your parent’s wishes and accept their guidance. Learn how to communicate love, honor, and respect to each other…I wish you the best !!

Answer #2

well I always feel that way but then in the end I know I need my mother but not all cases are the same.it really depends on the situation…I mean if its to bad then I wouldnt stay there because its not good for you…but if you just fight over stupid stuff then you 2 need to work out your problems becuase you need your mom

Answer #3

Well depends on how bad the situation is if its just teenage rivalry between you & your mom then its pretty normal . But if there is some kind of abuse like mental or physical then I would find out if maybe you could move in with a family member you trust NOT some friend. I know that living with a friend sounds appealing but give it a month out of your house you will remember how much your parents actually do for you in the first place.

Answer #4

Okay, as a 15 year old who cannot stand to even look at my mom. Go with your gut instinct. People as in family may say you’ll regret it after it happens, but don’t let her ruin your life. I have trust issues with all my friends, boyfriends, and even siblings because of my mom. Don’t let her do it to you. LEAVE!!!

Answer #5

why dont you try talking to another member of the family that is a responsible adult. spill the beans, let it all out, cry if you have to . But try to work something out like living arrangements for a while till things settle down. Hopefully this person will help you find different coping methods because obviously your still going to be angry, so chill for a while. go out with frineds try to enjoy yourself but most of all stay safe if things are really really bad at home dont put up with it. move on with someone close. or just putting it plainly sit your mum down and have a good chat with her about things that upset you and things that she could sort out or even go to family councilling.(many people think that it works).

Answer #6

I am a parent of a 17 year old who aways takes the easy way out when we fight. She leaves and go to live with her dad, then returns when she fights with him. It has been like this for many years and it hurts me tremendously as not only she falls behind in school, she has not learn to stick to a relationship as yet. She can’t stick to the same school or the same job and doesn;t even seem to care. I love her and want the best for her but she think that I don’t lover her and favours my younger son more.
Don’t leave your Mom. she loves you and as much as she needs you there, you need her too. Talk to her, I wish my daughter would. tell her how you feel and I know things will work out. Good Luck ans stay strong!!

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