My mom and I always fight

The only thing you can do is to try to avoid the arguement. Come home early or at least on time. If she starts yelling at you then KEEP YOUR MOUTH SHUT (I know this will be hard, I’ve been there with my own mother). Try to hang in there you will get through it and try to understand that she might just feel like she’s losing her “baby”. Mothers sometimes have a very hard time with their children growing up and becoming independent (this isn’t an excuse for her behavior just reality). Be patient and try to understand how she’s feeling, maybe it will bring her around to be a little more “normal”.

Good luck

I read a few lines and skipped. I can say I was/is a good kid/person but it means nothing. How about this? Never fight. If your mom wants to fight, don’t. It takes 2 people to fight. Never raise your voice. You don’t have to win. You don’t have to prove her wrong. If she makes a mistake, it’s okay. She’s human no one’s perfect. If you refuse to fight, things will get better. As well, if she ever does the above…don’t put her down or look down on her, just politely tell her you don’t appreciate it and keep it short. No need to fight and no need to prove people wrong. Basically, if you only settle for niceness you’ll naturally be surrounded with nice people.

..I have these fight to, with my mother.. I live in the Netherlands.. someplace Nearby Amsterdam.. and you now Holland is one big Weed and cocaine place right… but I never ever had something to do with alcohol..or drugs positive!, But like whenever I go out just like 1 night for a few hours or so, and I really didn’t do anything wrong..;. She just gets like… mad and says all kind of thing like. you aren’t a junky JET but you’re going to be if you’re out so late… and she always arges about my grates at school and thing like that… and like really… I”M TRYING TO BE GOOD>>> BUT ALWAYS when I’m arround her there is a fight!!! but we also have our good times.. but still those good times are runed by arges and things like that… and I tell ya.. Talking to her in a arge is IMPOSSIBle like breaking in, in the White house!!… fock man.. I hate my life… if ya don’t hear anything of me again… means I commited suicide ;)..:S