Why don't I ever feel sexual arousal?

My boyfriend has done everything for me: he’s gone down on me, fingered me, tried every trick in the book. I’ve tried to get myself off even, but I just never feel real arousal. I’m not sensitive to anything; no touch or lick can get me to really feel arousal - I just feel it like a regular thing. I don’t understand what’s wrong with me.

Answer #1

could be a medication your on?

Answer #2

you have to find things that turn you on how some one acts or touches you in a way it may be that you just wont feel it i have a sister who actually dosent like sexule things at all she just dosent get turned on but you can probly find somthing if you try hard enough

Answer #3

the only medication I’m on is birth control, and the odd Ibuprofen when I have a headache. :/

Answer #4

I have tried for years. nothing seems to work for me.

Answer #5

actually birth control can do that

Answer #6

well like i said my sister just dosent get turned on ether i mean there are some meds you could talk to you doctor about that would help but it would only be tempory dont worry its not a huge bodly issue usally some peaple are just built that way

Answer #7

It may just be that you need to practice a bit with your boyfriend until you find something that works for you. Or, it may be a side effect of your contraception.

Answer #8

only certain ones and she would have to go back to when she had first started taking it to rember if it started with birthcontrol or if shes always been this way

Answer #9

only certain ones and she would have to go back to when she had first started taking it to rember if it started with birthcontrol or if shes always been this way

Answer #10

it goes back before i took any contraceptives, though.

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