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Im sexually aroused by my man but cannot cum...

Hello. My name is Kenni. Im 23 years old and live in Michigan. I am having problems cumming for my old man. Im sexually appealed to him and it feels great when we make love and the only problem is I get to the point where Im ready to cum and then cant…. It is bringing problems into our relationship and I dont know what to do about it… Can you please help?

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Answer #1

Thank you for you wonderful advice, Im hoping that in the end I will finally cum!!!!!

Answer #2

Why does it matter to your partner if you cum? If you are happy then what is the problem?

Answer #3

Thats what I tryed to tell him. He just wants to know to the fullest that I am happy. I told him by me telling him that Im happy he should know that Im happy… It just bothers the both of us that I can not cum…

Answer #4

I am a female and I also had this problem. Many women do they just dont speak about it. 1. relax dont pressure it to much trust me if you quit worrying about it you know being in the middle of the act going ok i hope i do it this time. Forget it. breath fast with the rhythm. 2. Get on top and move around youll find the best spot do what you gotta do and remember to relax and breath and it might help to moan trust me. I really liked it to and when it happened it was such a relief. It was great.

Answer #5

Well I am not a woman but from what I have seen and read most women don't have that hard of an orgasm ever time they have sex. It sounds like your guy has the wrong impression of what you want out of your relationship. Orgasm does not always equal cum and no orgasm does not always equal bad sex. Sounds like he just needs to trust that you are being honest with him and that if you want more or something different you will be open with him.

Answer #6

You know that is what I thought is he did not have enough faith in that I was being honest with him… Thanks for the advice!!!

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