What do you do when you feel replaced?

heavy things, I will do no exaggeration to claim denials, accept everything that happened, if I maintain that is not necessarily wrong, just like hurting yourself and others, all will be fine, do your best for those around us, still fun :)

believe me spinning wheels, if done for the family sincerely all will be good, only a matter of time,

First I’m very sorry, no one should have to feel replaced or like they don’t have a place to belong. I would be extremely hurt and crying also if I was in your position, I mean by everything your saying you gotta be feeling pretty left out and non-exsistent. Second you have to bring this up to your parents. Or even ask tomorrow like (what are you doing today) and start from there. & hopefully things turn around.

I feel sad but then again the next person will just be a rebound anyway!

When it comes to my friends…Well I know I am not being replaced. It may feel like it but all of my extremely close friends have told me I am one of a kind :) And that we’re really close! So don’t worry about it! And if you are getting replaced by somebody else…kill them (make it look like an accident, though!) :D

And don’t worry about your twin sister’s best friend. Believe me, no friend can really REPLACE a sibling. Also, I like to hang out with my friends instead of my sister I still love her! So don’t worry about it, ok?

well first off this is a first where a twin is closer to a friend there her other twin…I must say she sounds horrible! Instead of making sure you both are close its like she is pushing you out & her best friend in…from what you stated here of course. pretty sad!

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I will be honest here…where the flying f$%^ have you been til now?! You sat there allowing this abuse this non existing relationship for yourself. Why have you not taken a stand til now since she has pushed her way into your sisters life & into your families life as if you were the outsider!?

* If you want to make the change you gotta be serious…that means fighting fire with fire to exist…you want to make a statement, begin with opening your mouth…barging into conversations…reminding them that you are a part of this family & damn well be treated with the same respect as everyone else! if you dont open your mouth, they will keep pushing you to the curb…you want to know what is going on…start acting like you care…ask questions, ask them how their day was, include & participate in daily conversations…tell them what happened to you in school…or how well you did on your last test…make them see you are there not just as a piece of unused furniture collecting dust.

I know it sux to feel left out…I felt like that for years…(narcissistic mother for ya) that is why I am telling you to take a stand…make them listen…most of all make them include you as a family member not like a stranger!

hope this helped & good luck to ya! Keep us posted!

ooooh and i almost forgot about last week, when mom took my 2 sisters out of school to go shopping 4 hours away with 3 of thier friends, leaving me at school, and leaving me home alone after school while I sat throug my first tornado. after words saying ‘sorry, i dint think you would want to go, but you can come with me to london next week’ then the next day comeing up to me saying ‘sorry i already promised you sister she could come with me.’ and that was that

Very well said!!!!!!

Talk to them about it, express to them how you feel about it. They may not be doing it intentionally, telling them will let them know.

ty ty!