How can I feel confident about my game?

Ok thanks! :) Yes, I know. I know that if he really loves me, he should love me through the good and the embarresing. Haha! But I just can’t shake that feeling.. :/ I feel because he is SO good at that sport, that I should match up to that! :( And I know that is so wrong, I just do not know what the heck to do!

Well I agree with Kahili…. but theres something else too. You said you are good at soccer? Well when you are in the middle of a soccer game do you get really into it and give like 110%? Well try to do that with the basketball game too. If you get really into it then you wont be worrying about him in the stands. Focus on the game and what you are doing, not what people think about what youre doing. I never want people to come watch me at any sport (basketball, tennis, softball) and knowing they are coming I will feel the same way you do even though I have been playing the sports for years. The only way I get over the fear/anxious/nervous feeling is to focus on the game. It works for me, so hopefully itll help you too. And you already know your boyfriend will still care about you regardless of your basketball skills, so dont worry and just go have fun :)

Haha, ok thanks! (:

remember in 100 years how will care or remember

And what have you done with your life that will be remembered in a hundred years? I expect not very much except propagate. Hopefully your offspring inherited more of their mothers’ genes.

go to field and watch others play create your own tactics which can improve your performance and confidence in your game

You work hard at it everyday. Practice on the court as an individual & with the team. Do not pay any attention to negativity & distance yourself from negative people. As far away from them as possible. Encourage yourself to do well & at excel at whatever it is that you do, on & off of the court.