fast advice please!

me and my boyfriend having been together for 11 months, hes been living with me for about 8 months. And about two weeks or so maybe longer ago we got into an argument because he said that im the reason he doesnt go hangout with his friends. His friends have this so called band, and he likes to go play. And I’ve never told him he could go I just said I didnt want him out to late and that he couldnt go like everyday. And lately hes been leaving during the morning and going to hangout with his friends and then going to his band practice at night and it just he wants to go now like 2-3 days a week, and still go to like his brothers and stuff and like hangout with his other friends. But on weekends he works sat-and sun and he doesnt want to do anything friday or saturday…I just feel like he doesnt have his prioritizes right, like he had this big plan for us to get a house and be together but it feels like he doesnt even think about that no more, he comes home at night and goes to bed, and like I know he lives with me but I want to spend time with him by myself sometimes. and he gets mad because he says I see him everyday, and I dont wanna just see him. its so miserable like I feel like I just need to give him a break to see what he really wants. because it seems like to me hes just not ready to be a man like he isnt ready for this relationship he still wants his fun.