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How can I deal with my dad abusing me?

my father abused me. he is 39 and im 14. he abused me because I missed an assignment and I have a d in that class. its french. please help.

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Answer #1

no im not lying. its all cool I think right now, hes not in a good position jobwise. im an indian andwhen I count the times he slaped me, I am not being exact, but who would? who would cont? I talked to the counselor as you guys said and she said that show would call the child abuse… thingy. I said if she could excuse this time because I didn’t want my father to get embaressed. hes the only working person in the family. She said that the child abuse… thingy woudn’t do anything if its a diiplinary issue. which I said it was. like I said I didn’t want to losemy dad. I got to know that the teacher herself is a racist to indians, im not the only onewhos going thru this. and he understood that. o im chaning my classes next sem. I just wish that f* tacher dies someday. and yes my mom kows abou this this she was there when it happened. but indian fathers are the only peple to rule the house and women are nothing.

Answer #2

are you lying cus it dont soudn realistic you dont count how many times soeone slaps you and tbh 15 times is very unrealistic you wouldve struggled out by the tie hed hit you 15 ties,,, my advice is if he trys hitting you or sumit like that just floor him you cant get done for it its self defense and tell someone

Answer #3

if you have your mom try to sit down and talk to her about it try telling a counseler at your school but a nice counseler try to talk to a teacher or someone at the school who works there!!! and if he abuses you regulary you need to tell the truth to somebody!!

Answer #4

does your mother know? what type of family arrangement are you in, eg. are your parents seperated, and do you have siblings?

Answer #5

he twisted my arm and grab my baack and slammed it, he slammed it 5 times and then slaped me 15 times. ths was yesterday, it isn;t soar now.

Answer #6

report him to your mom the police the school anyone that might help that is child abuse and noone deserves that!!!

Answer #7

dont stay silent

Answer #8

tell your mother or the school this is serious, you dont deserver this =(

Answer #9

how did he abuse you?

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