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dwelling on the past

my friend had talked to another guy in the past nothing sexually just someone that was there when she needed to talk about 3 years ago, and her husband keeps on bringing it up but he loves her and trust her at times but not all she tells him that he’s jealous, insecure, and dont’ trust her he says that he’s being protective so it won’t happen again what should she do or say to be trusted again and move on with her marriage.

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Well, I’m sure you’re trying to help them out but as they are married they need to work on the marriage themselves. Maybe you can suggest that she doesn’t try to change the subject everytime he brings up and look him in the eye and tell him that from the bottom of her heart she loves him and only him and if she didn’t she would have married someone else. Maybe he has been hurt in the past. If this is the case, this type of behavior doesn’t seem like its going to shake off any time soon. Like how I have been hurt (my dad cheated on my mom), its hard for me to trust my bf even though I love him I just get scared that one day he’s going to cheat on me and I’m the fool who loves him so much. So maybe can help you out! :) good luck to ur friend!

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