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How do i deal with this crap?

well my 2 brothers just came to stay with my family for the summer, i never met these brothers ( that another story). So they are like strangers, and this is just messing my summer up. I mean i don’t got my personal space any more, cause they sleeping in my room! so i can’t watch tv, can barly get on MY computer and, i can barly play my 360. every time i try to relax in there they always mess it up, it putting me in a bad mood. Which making me take my anger out on other peoples didn’t do nothing wrong, i don’t got no place to even have some private time on the phone with my girlfriend. Every time i try to talk to my mom about this she start acting so childish! Like oh well ill move out and they can have my room bah bah bah! my girlfriend said i can move in with her, and am thinking about talking to my mom about it, cause ill go insane living in this house for the WHOLE SUMMER! these fools havn’t even been here a full day yet and am already annoy, i just don’t know what to do, mom won’t listen and them fools probably will have a smart comment to say back to me if i say something. So i don’t want to try none of that, I’m really considering moving into my girlfriend mom house. She said it rent free to ( and her mom said it is ok) so the deal can’t get much better then that. but help please? cause i can’t take it no more,

P.S there no way my brothers can move out, cause they live in a whole different state. So they pretty much stuck here still the end of the summer -.-!!!!!

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Answer #1

well welcome to living with brothers lol, but yea i never knew my brothers and still dont… i just started visiing them and its just like above…ur just use to havin so much privacy and not having other boys around i understand… but brotherhood is just like u described above… u could try to talk to them about it… or u could just move in with your gf.. but everyone who has lived with there brothers have been through this and much more… maybe u just have to have your privacy… but just know brotherhood is that and much more and its normal b4 u make hasty desicions…

Answer #2

It’s only for the summer right? It’s not like you have to deal with this on a long-term basis. Through out life you are going to have to spend time with people who anoy you and get in your face. You need to learn to deal with it. Also, it’s summer so spend time out with friends. You don’t have to be in your room. Go to your friends house, gf’s house, beach or other hang out place. Get a job, make some money, and see every movie that comes out this summer. The amount of stuff you can do that does not include your house and brothers is unlimited. You can make this the best summer you’ve ever had.

Answer #3

i have 2 brothers so i know what you’re going through. They hog up the tv, the computer, EVERYTHING and get on my nerves. And like what “ponypal” said, you should try to get out of the house, after all it is summer, spend as much time with your friend and girlfriend out of the house as possible, that way you wont feel it as much. You can also try to talk to your brothers and tell them how you feel and ask them to please give you some space. Try to get to know them more, take them places , try to bond with them, maybe take them out with a group of friends.They are your brothers and it’s only right to get to know as much about them as you can for the short time that they are there. You’d be surprised that after a while, you might start to get along.

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