Daughter to mother problems- mother gone physco

Okay, well, I am a 16 year old. Im just a normal girl, I play tons of sports, I do very well in school, I am close with my friends and family. But recently, I have came to discover that my mom and I are just not getting along. I believe something is wrong with her, because she is turning into a very strict and unpleasent person. She seems to not let me go, and these are my teen years to have fun. I am recently grounded, and made me a list of 14 things to do for her, asap! She will not let me even go outside andplay lacrosse, or go for a run with my dog. She believes I will run away, or meet up with friends. Yes, teens are rebellious, but I wont run away, as much as I want to. She does buy me things and usually lets me go out, but recently, she holds me down, and wont even let me get a job. I want to ear money on my own, to save up for things I will need. She will not let me get my permit, even though I bet I can drive well, I have practice with fourwheelers and snowmobiles. My mother is turning into someone physco, that I do not like, and do not wish to be around. Noone can hangout with me, and this is my 16th year old summer! I am trapped inside, besides soccer practice. Any word she says to me is..”jill, do this, get up, do it now, I need it done” I have to clean the whole house because she makes me. She can sit and take a nap, while I am being treated as a slave. I told her to stop talking so mean to me, it hurts me feelings, but she said, grow up, and help out around here, there isnt time for attention. Honestly, I dont want attention from her! She is physco. I wish to live somewhere else, get away from her, because I cant do anything around here besides follow her commands. I dont know what to do, I am being held in a world ruled by her, and I cannot rebel. I am frustrated with not having a say in anything, and I am annoyed from being called stupid, and sworn at. Help me, pleaseee.

Answer #1

thats not shyt.. you aint got shyt on my story go read my question

Answer #2

that last part is called mental child abuse. She can get in big trouble for that. I say you should just really just sit you two down and have a calm, adult conversation together. Or you guys could go see a counselor/therapist. and/or as a last and final result(only do it if you really, really feel the need to) you could call the child abuse line. It is in the phone book. I hope things get better for the both of you!

Answer #3

thanksss :]

Answer #4

that B* all the way uptop DEFFINATLY dont know what shes talking about…I had the mother from hell.. called the cops and child services on her asz and they aint do a mothafuckin thing they said shes the parent.. you could get amancipated except you have to show the judge you have a job and a place to live .. oh and your mom has to sign off on it but from your story it dont sound like she wants you to go anywhere shes like my mom was when I was 16 layin down bossin me around..but I could go on all day girl I been threw some shyt you wouldnt believe

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