Problems with my mother

Tell her how you feel.

I think your mom really does care about you if she wanted custody of you.

Moms love their children unconditionally whether they know how to show it or not. Some moms are more girl moms and some are more boy moms. I know that sounds weird but, I have seen it in so many parents. While others have a hard time showing love with out gifts. Maybe thats how she was treated/taught while growing up.

Maybe you could ask your mom to talk and sit down with her. Or ask her to have a Mommy and “Tux” day without any gifts. Go to a park and sit to talk or someplace that holds significance to you and her. Explain that her buying you gifts is okay once in a while but, what you want more is her to show love. Talk to her about your problems and she will open up to you about how she feels. Give it time. Things happen for a reason.

Good luck to you. Wish you all the best. Keep your chin up!

You need to give her and yourself a chance. Maybe, for some reason, she doesn’t really know how to be a mother to you. You might try sitting down and having a long and honest talk with her explaining your feelings and desires. Tell her, if you want her to be a part of your life. Communication is the key to understanding by both of you.

ya I agree but in a way you might want to try and make it look like you need her to help you so she sees herself supportive over you aswell as makeing it clear you can also take care of youself

girl dunt say your mum does not care for you if she did not she would not be buying you gifts , she wont be bothered to buy you off . But if you dunt like something speak to her abt it you never knw wht she is going through unless you open upto her she is not going to knw where she is going wrong . She is not God you c . Mum’s are the best girl cherish her because when she is no more than dunt regret …Alwaz remem one thing when the world is against u , you can alwaz count on your mum to be there 4 u.

Wow, I’ve seen some really good advise here. I just want to add that if you want the love of a mother, where better to look than your mother. She is probably very unsure of herself, as well as being unsure if you still love her. Let her know if you do. Explain that you don’t need gifts to give her love. Tell her how you feel about everything and it may just help more than you could ever know until you have kids of your own.