Could you date someone who slept with someone you hate...?

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You’re kind of a pr!ck. You’re only irritated because a d-bag you know got to sleep with her before you did and now you want nothing to do with her. GIrls are NOT competition to see who can sleep with her first. And that’s really lame that you’re thinking of not seeing her anymore because of a mistake she made with another guy. I’m sure you’ve slept with girls that she dislikes, but it’s not like she’s competing with them to see who can sleep with you first. If you really “love” this girl, then you will get over it. If not, then I hope she finds someone who doesn’t just want to get in her pants for competition.

Not sure how one can fall in love with someone in three months but then again, everyone’s heart is different. I think if you have having issue with this girl and the guy she slept with, your relationship with her isn’t going to blossom as whom she slept with is going to keep eating at you and this will put a massive strain on your relationship. I certainly do not think you are a pr*ck, everyone has the own standards and I’m with you on this one. If someone could lower themselves to slept with a “loser”, regardless if it is a one night stand or not, I would think their taste and esteem is rubbish. People will say to you, a person’s past is the past, but they fail to realise, some past cannot be accepted or erased, even if you love that person, their past will always be there to haunt you. I suggest if you really really love this girl, give her a chance and date her but I can guarantee you, how you feel about her shagging this “ugly loser” will not go away unless you allow it. Relationship is hard work as it is, why let an issue that is going to be an issue complicate the relationship more, better to find another person with less of a sl-uttish past… Saves yourself the heartache.

I think ill take your advice and date her to see how it goes. I mean if I can’t get over it then we’ll just have to remain friends. and if I can get over it (which I’m going to work so that I can) then it’ll work out. Thanks for your advice I really appreciate it.

If I was just fooling around with this girl and we were just friends, this wouldn’t bother me in the slightest. It’s taking on an actual relationship with this girl knowing this guy has had her as a one night stand that’s really bothering me…You know snickering to all of our mutual friends about how he “had” her last night and wont be calling her high fiveing each-other… It kills me… And if i cant get over it i sincerely do hope she finds someone to make her happy (she truly is an amazing girl) and as I stated above I don’t fault her for it, we all make mistakes… It’s just that her particular mistake hits to close to home…. Thank you for you uuumm judgment? I guess.

If you really care about her and love her why let this get in the way? Yeah he might have got her first but at least you weren’t the mistake. That one night stand doesn’t define her as who she is. I could understand being hurt and annoyed / pissed. No matter who the person is you will always find something you don’t like about them or something they did. I think it is always best to put the past behind us and just move on. You should give it a chance rather looking back full of regrets.

Very well said, thank you! :)

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