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Is this cheating?

I have a boyfriend been dating for almost 4 years. I love him more than anything I am really against cheating. My best friend and I had a sleepover… we got drunk. She kissed me / grabbed my boobs. I kissed her back not really understanding whats going on. Then she was humping me / finger banging me she pushed my hands down her pants I did it back to her then I realized what I did so I stop right away. She kept trying to id push her away shed keep doing it I was getting mad so I rolled over went to sleep. She finally stop in the morning I was mad didn’t know what to say to her. Would you classify this cheating? I seriously don’t know what to tell my boyfriend? I cant keep anything from him I love him to bits I don’t think he’d care but what if he does She got me so drunk that I could barely stand and I don’t even remember some of the night. What should I do I cant lose my boyfriend I care to much about him. My best friend and I are both girls and no im not bisexual never been curious this is so out of character felt kinda taken advantage of.

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Answer #1

Yes that’s cheating

Answer #2

Any type of physical or emotional connection in an inappropriate way is cheating, so yes what you did, in my eyes is cheating

Answer #3

Just explain to him that you were with your friend and she got you really drunk and took advantage of you… But you need to tell him that you also did some stuff to her too, because it wasn’t all on her.

It is definitely cheating.

Think about if your boyfriend got a little frisky with another guy, wouldn’t you be mad?

Hopefully you two can get past this.

But being honest is all you can do, he deserves that much.

Answer #4

How would you respond if you were dating a girl for 4 years and she told you this? Would you forgive her or dump her why or why not?

Answer #5

I’d forgive her. I’m a forgiving guy, so I’d get past it pretty fast.

Answer #6

Definitely cheating.

Answer #7

yup thats definatly cheating n theres no excuse…… shes not much of a friend she dident respect the fact that you have a bf… and she kept trying to even though you told her no…. but now all you can do is tell your bf and apoligize but thats deffentily cheating even if you were drunk…

Answer #8

It is definitely cheating!

Answer #9

You cheated. If he got drunk and got it on with a girl you wouldn’t say he was taken advantage of. No excuse for that. Like a drunk driver, you are responsible for your own actions. I would forgive my girlfriend as long as she didn’t have an STD. Get tested and be completely honest about your error in judgement. Go to an AA meeting.

Answer #10

Wow. Um… how to respond… I would say that isn’t really cheating, cuz it was lesbian sex…

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