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How to move on from catching my boyfriend chatting?

My boyfriend was chatting - cyber sex, girls of all ages- for about a year, until I discovered his habit, and asked him what was going on. After denying the situation for months, he came clean and felt very bad about what he did. We’ve been trying to get over it since, and I do love him very much, but I feel like everytime I turn on the t.v. I see women in provacative situations, or everytime we’re out in public, I find myself noticing every attractive woman around, wondering if I am more attractive, or if he thinks I am. I have also been considering breast implants, … all in all, this situation has made a mess of me!
But most importantly, I have been reading into this sort of behaviour, and the ideas that keep arising in books, t.v. or on the internet are that men are more biologically inclined to cheat, no one woman can satisfy a man fully, etc etc..

this is all turning me off of sex. How can a woman really enjoy sex knowing that her partner may not continue to be faithful, or could perhaps be thinking of another woman?

How can a woman enjoy life knowing she will one day age and her importance in a man’s life will fade alongside her looks? I know I sound depressing but these are the messages being sent out by the media.. how does a woman cope with all of this?

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Embrace your man’s sexuality :) encourage him - don’t feel victimized. If you see a pretty girl and you’re out together… say something about her thats flattering… like… “imagine if you had us BOTH in bed!”

Take advantage of his strong appetite. Go to sex stores, pick out toys together, have more, enjoy more sex…

Don’t make him feel guilty because he notices a sexy woman. A friend of mine told me his wife used to call him a dirty pig because he likes watching the Solid Gold dancers on TV. Now he’s with someone who thinks he’s hot.

Men who leave their wives when they’re 50, for some young 25 year old, are doing it for one thing. extra and more sex. What they don’t realize is the 25 yr old is looking for security, and gives sex for that. What a complex world we live in. Mother Nature is cruel, as I’ve said before. But hey - what did someone say to me the other day? If you’re handed lemons, make lemonade. :)

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