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is my brother gay?

he is 14 and a half i caught him watching gay porn..his middle part is always showing in front of me and my sister and my mom and he doesn’t seem to care.. he doesn’t talk about grls much unless his friends say shes hot then he does the same thing..I am scared for him.. i had a cousin that had a religious family and my cousin found out he was gay at 16 and tried k!lling him self due to bullying he became anti social and still there was cyber bullying.. he hates who he turned out to and i can tell before they found out he was gay he had so many friends and joined so many activities he was like popular at his high school, parties, going out all the time now hes home schooled and i hardly see him..my parents is relgious and my brother is about to a freshmen i am scared for him..is he gay?

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Answer #1

Well I don’t know if for sure he’s gay or not but showing you his private parts is definatley wrong and disturbing. I’d start with addressing that situation and then you may learn more about him.

Answer #2

We can’t say for sure without actually knowing the guy lol. If you’re concerned, why don’t you ask him? What you’ve told us really doesn’t prove anything about his sexual orientation.

Answer #3

I wouldn’t be worried about his sexuality because he can make choices for himself, and whether he be bi-sexual, straight, or gay he will come out of the closet when he is ready and if he doesn’t than he won’t. I wouldn’t worry though because some guys just like being cerious with porn and stuff. I know girls who have watches lesbian porn, and all that. Even animals having sex, that doesn’t mean they want to date a horse, dog, cat, etc. I would address the having his penis out though it is just unexcpetable, and something everyone doesn’t need to see.

Answer #4

be calm first. you could try asking him. if he is your person will still love him the same. me personally HATE people who judge others. i love gay boys/men. if you really want to know just talk to him and it’ll come out eventually, if he doesnt want anyone else to know DO NOT TELL. he will soon feel comfortable letting others know. one reason he probably wont tell because he possibly feels you all would love him the same, let him know that you do.

Answer #5

this is gonna sound wrong but if you really really wanna find out bring somme of your really attractive friends over see if he wants to hangout ul find out how he acts if he acts like a girl than i am sorry but your brother is gay if he gets shy or hits on them or watever than he isent try to make them hit on him(as weird as it sounds just let them be flirty) even ask him in the begining before they comme :hey (insert name of the girls) are coming over you wanna hang out with us. if he acta like a diva or says things like ew or watever he might be gay its gonna be hard to tell if he says yes but you will find out by the way he acts talks and dresses when ur around also in the middle of that chilling see if he talks bout boys or say truth or dare to see what he says

Answer #6

How someone talks and how they dress doesn’t determine anything.

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