Broke with girlfriend to be friends for "awhile"

im not sure but you should try 2 b helpful imagin what she must b going through. I cant really help with the other question but I hope I helpd you with this answer adanbarrenger out

make sure she knows that your ok with the bby well if you are because she probly feels awcward bout it or embarased or sumtin shes upset about it just like go up to her and if its not to much sorta force her to talk and tell her its ok and shell understand that you care and all good luck

It may sound bad and may not be what you want to hear, but in this case, I think being her friend is the better option. She is having a child and this is going to put a lot of strain on her education and on her life as a whole. If you get too closely involved in a situation like this, it could also put a huge strain on your life too. This is what she wants, but it is not at all selfish to consider what you want as well.

Tell her that as a close friend, you will be there for her, you will be willing to talk to her and give her any support that she needs. If you care about her and even think you want her back, this is a time where you have to prove yourself to her. Her life is going to be very different and if you are there for her to give her help and support, I guarantee that she will appreciate it limitlessly. It will allow her to see that you really care for her and that just because you don’t have the boyfriend/ girlfriend status, you are still going to be there for her and care about her very much. This kind of thing means a real lot to a girl.

In saying this, I repeat that you should not get too involved. Just be there when she needs you (which won’t be all the time I’m sure). If you live up to your words to her and be there when she needs you then she will notice and will think very highly of you (even if it doesn’t lead to you getting back together). Her life is going to be complicated and hard for now and she needs some time to think about things and get her life back on-track. If you can be there to help her in these difficult times then I’m sure both of you will feel satisfied and very good about yourselves and each other :).

She told you she wants to be friends, because she isnt interested in you. She probably wants the baby’s father. You need to get out altogether in this type of situation. I really dont think a 14 yr old is ready to handle a relationship with a girl who is pregnant by another boy!

think how old are you? are you ready to HAVE a child? if not then its probably not a good idea to be with her. if you love her and will stick with her to the very end (marriage no divorce) then go for it and tell her so!