Boyfriends Controlling Mother

Don’t get your hopes up until he is out on his own and managing himself for a while.I was with a Mama’s Boy for 16 years who never moved out of his parents house and now 2 years later even though I am no longer with him,he still lives there.Some men don’t ever grow up or have what it takes to cut the umbilical cord and get away from Mommy.Whatever you do,don’t have kids with this joker.That would be ahuge mistake.Wait until he is on his own, married to you before you move in with him and then add 3-5 years to whenever this happens then think about having kids with him.You gotta be sure he will not run back to Mommy if things get challenging and that he is willing to marry you before you move in together.

37 is pretty old to still be living with his mother. Does he have any plan to move out on his own? I recommend you wait until he’s living somewhere else before moving forward with the relationship; he needs to cut ties with his mother before he can bond effectively with you, and doing both at the same time will add to your relationship stress. Also get him to read this article on dealing with a controlling mother: [link removed]

Cheers, Graham

Google “how to recover from a controlling mother” for the link.