How to tell my boyfriend's Mother about us?

My boyfriends mother doesn’t know about us.. I want to send her a Christmas card telling her about us. What should I say??

Answer #1

You should be upset that he isnt telling her himself. Thats his job. Is he afraid of his mom and what she would think? Maybe you should really consider the both of you sitting down and talking to her.

Answer #2

Whoa, if you do it you are overstepping some major boundaries. You may be looking for a new boyfriend if you do that without talking to him first.

Answer #3

I personaly think you should both sit down with her and tell her, or get your boyfriend to. I don’t digg the whole christmas card idea. You don’t want her to think that you kept it away from her because then she will wonder if there are other things you are keeping from her and thats not a good start.

Answer #4

I think you should talk to your boyfriend about that before you take innitiative…

He should be the one to tell her, or you and him together- It could offend her if you tell her and not her son.

Answer #5

He knows I was sending one.. he said he would give it to her himself if I’d like.

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