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Boyfriend leaving

I have been going out with my boyfrined for a month. When I first met him I knew he was leaving for college soon but we still decided to have a relationship. I didnt want to because I didnt want to get attached and feel the way I am feeling now. He really likes me and he sais he will stay and go to college here only if I really want to continue the relationship. I don’t want to tell him to stay because if the relationship doesn’t work I’m going to feel like I wasted his time. I like him but since it has only been a month I dont know if I can make that decision. The only reason why he is leaving is because his whole family is moving away and he will be all by himself here. He doesnt like living here but sais he will stay for me. I know that he will be better where he is going because its a good business school and will finish faster. Should I tell him to go or to stay???

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Honestly, I would say allow him to go. Distance is a difficult thing to deal with but if you two really like each other and are meant to be it will not be a barrier.

If it does not work out he will always blame you for it…and that guilt will be on you. Just allow him to go. Who knows perhaps you can go to the same college or even a nearby one :D

Good Luck

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