What, should I tell my boyfriend a girl is saying he's cheating?

A girl wrote me saying he cheated on me with her twice last month. I wrote her back asking for proof, she said she had pictures and she’d show me when she got home….. but never did. She hasn’t written me back, and she’s been on. (if that really happened, why wouldn’t she follow through with what she was saying?) Him and I have talked about that girl before, and dealt with it.. he didn’t want to talk about her anymore… and then she messages me. So should I bring it up to him, or leave it alone?

Answer #1

i think you should talk to him about it in a calm way. and tell him what she told you because you dont want this getting out of hand,if you’ve spoken about it before then tell him thats its happened again and maybe ask if he can talk to the girl ?

or if you trust him enough dont say anything (:

Answer #2

Bring it up to him because although she may not have proof she may still be telling the truth. Ask her to three way him and talk to him about it without him knowing you’re on the phone. It’s kniviing but it may just work. Hope this helped.

Answer #3

you must make sure of what you gonna tell him.but you must have proof,because may be that girl is jolos of you and want to destyroy your relationship.it takes a long time to make relationships,but to destroying it,it just takes few minutes.for that becareful and be sure of everything.and when you,r ready to tell him,just ask him that”are you cheating on me with another girl” then you will find your answers**hope i helped….

Answer #4

ive always said not to let things fester cus as times goes on so does teh paranoia grow… confront him but as lizo said, in a calm way..

i mean she could just be trying to get the biatch of the year award but do you really want to wait and find out moe?

just have a gd think of how you can approach him about it and calmly tell him exacty what she has said or better still show him.

Answer #5

He went to another state until the 28th.. should I leave it alone and wait to talk to him in person?

Answer #6

I would bring it up. Although you guys agreed to let it be, you’re his girlfriend and you deserve to know what’s going on.

As for talking to him, maybe say something like this.. “I know we’ve talked about this before and have agreed not to bring it up again, but I got a message a few days ago that I’d really like for you to see. Can you please tell me what’s going on? This is really important to me.”

If he has nothing to hide, he shouldn’t be that upset about explaining it.

Answer #7

i think you should talk face to face because over the phone makes it akward i think but if its bugging you that much phone him just do what you thinks best ….

Answer #8

yes, bring it up. if he didnt want to talk about it anymore he may be lying r hiding soemthing, and you want a clear answer. tell him that she told you he cheated on you with her, and that she said she has proof. demand a straight answer from him and dont stop asking untill you get one

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