What do I do if my boyfriend is cheating?

I will. Anyone else? what should i do?

Well, it all depends on your thought on cheating like if he kisses, touches, goes out like to a club to her its cheating. And We need more details in order to get a visual of this. But in my opinion i would say i break up with him if this is becoming a habit with him. and this girl

date and maybe sex happened. i found her lipstick in his car and she messaged me out of nowhere tonight saying something happened and she’s sorry.

i want to know when i should confront him, now or later when I get more details

Depends on what kind of cheating you are talking about….If it’s physical cheating (sex, kissing etc) then it will your decision alone on whether to dump him or not….If the ways he acted has given you some doubt you really need to talk to him, watch his body language and decide if he is worth it being miserable with……….If the cheating is emotionaly only, where your bf is getting deep and meaningful with this girl, telling her all your dirty secrets, confiding in her first before you, then you have to tell him to stop…If he wants you he needs to stop having conversations like that with her…..Emotional cheating is just as bad as physical cheating but with the former, it is easier to forgive and forget.

I KNOW it had to have been physical. She said they spent two weekends together.. they couldn’t have been playing charades. he’s been acting funky lately, like distant towards me. (I had confronted him a week ago about that same girl because she was constantly posting comments on his profile) he barely deleted/blocked her from ms today. next thing I know, she’s writing me

It’s really hard to tell you what to do as I do not hang out with you or your bf :( For someone who only ever had 1 boyfriend, my advise would be fruitliess really…..Are you scared to lose him? If not, be upfront ask him upright….You need to make you can handle hearing that he has fooled around with her physical and then you have to decide to stay or have doubts all the time when you are with him…..I know I’m being a hypricite (I cheated on my bf by kissing a friend) but no guy is worth being sad and upset about Moe. If he did do you wrong, is it worth being with someone who disrespect you, unless he can promise he will not fool around with anyone ever….It will take time to built the trust back but it can work.

Don’t do anything drastic unless you KNOW he is cheating. If you know for sure, then ask him…give him the opportunity to fess up and be honest. If he does, then you have to decide to ride this out, or dump him.

If you know for sure he is, and he lies….DUMP HIM!

To be honest, I am scared to death of losing him. He was my first… so it’s really hard.. I have my blinders on and I’m being so naive, but everything he says draws me back in.. and I can’t help it! I want to confront him, but should I do it now, or wait to get more information and ask him about it in 2 weeks?

Why would a guy do that? Like, if he likes you enough to make you his girlfriend, why would he cheat on you? 4 girls before me have gotten mad because he didn’t want to date them. I figured there must be something there since he actually chose to be with me..

I don’t knoIw hun….Maybe Prannie will have more substantial advice and worth listening too……I can only draw from my experience and hope it helps, when Ryan dumped me cos I kissed a friend that I know and met on facebook, it made him cry, a guy his pretty tough and got his head screwed on alright was in tears….But we a really long chat and most of it was what I need to do to built the trust again, eg; not adding anymore random people on facebook, not having one on one chat with guys who we know likes me, not posting ‘come on’ photos online etc……Moe, if he’s worth keeping and you believe he can honest and not do it again (that is if he did cheat) can work….I know it’s miserable not being with someone, it took me a month being alone before Ryan asked me back as his girlfriend..

Some guys thinks with their d-cks then their brains. :(

OMG, i hate this site without the EDIT button, sux

Thank you.. I am to caught up in him and naive to do anything drastic at the moment. I think I’m going to wait and see how he acts during the two weeks that he’s gone.. I’ll see how much he tries to talk to me and whatnot… if he’s still acting stand offish, I’m gonna have to put an end to it. =’(

My thoughts are with you Moe. Good luck doll. :)

If he’s cheating on you. If maybe for some crazy reason he dies if he doesn’t then fine but if it’s just some teenage thing well dump him. Being a loyal bf/gf is a lot. They destroy their loyalty by dishonoring you. Well dump him. If he has a good reason. Fine. But if you forgive him once he’s bound to do it again…

don’t confront him just APPROACH him nicely and ask. You don’t know for sure if he is cheating. This girl could just be telling you dat. Just sit him down and tell him exactly what she told u and ask him to be completely honest with u. Depending on how serious di cheating was….u can try to work it out but in my opinion, if he loves u he wouldn’t cheat at ALL! but try not to jump to conclusions have all ur facts 1st! hope it helps =]