big brother -involved in gang-

what you should do is talk to him about the dangers of being in a gang

• you can get hurt
• people in gangs usually dont care about each other! its nothing like a family! they wont protect each other if your brother starts shouting at you and telling you to mind your own business, YOU NEED TO CALM DOWN AND NOT RAISE your VOICE!!! then, try to calm your brother down

You say he “made you swear” you wouldn’t tell his parents. Is a promise more important than his life?

Gang/gun violence is serious. It could end with him dying, or him killing someone else.

Both of those things are infinitely more important than your promise.

girl go to god that’s all I can tell u … git with jesus and he will take care of you 4ever!!!

how old is he he has a gun you should tell your parents right away

I think this is scary its like my brother. dont worry about the condoms, thats natural

if his 17, his getting older and he just wants to be out there and have friends . maybe something isnt right with either you or family or someone he is close to, & thats what his turned to for help.

love x

just talk to him thats the best thing that you could do at this time if he doesnt listen to what your saying then the only thing you have left to do is tell your parents it dont matter what he made you do its for his own good like would he rather die or be helped

alright look, just talk to him about it, make sure he knows how this is effecting you and the people around you. let him know the side effects to this. if nothing gets through to him. then tell your parents to search his room; but dont tell them the exact thing they’re looking for. if your brother gets mad; so be it. your only looking out for him.

good luck (:

Your choice - either tell them about the gun or live with the possibility you’ll answer the phone and it’s the police - they need to talk to a parent - it’s that serious - get him help.

I was once in a gang, I remember the way I got out. Maybe you could do the same with your bro.. im sure its hard but, I think its the right thing. I remember someone told on me, I was sent to a reformative school. Somehow I learned there, I changed, got out of the gang, started doin other stuff, etc. So my point is you should tell on him, tell the police you believe some one you know is doin x stuff and make him get caught..

I know that must be really hard, but you have to tell someone, otherwise no one knows what he could end up doing. I think you should tell the police before your parents, because if you told your mum and he found out before she rang the police it could go sooo bad. call the policee and theyll sort him outt. but with the condoms thats quite natural for that age. I would say in the time being you could take the gun + hand it to the police or something but he’d probably no it would be youu + go violentt. good luck with what youu doo x

Ok…THIS IS BETTER…PRAY FIRST, GIVE GOD A CHANCE TO HELP, SECOND IS IMPORTANT, GET T KNOW ABOUT HIS GANGS…TELL THE POLICE/SOMEONE WHOs BRAVE ENOUGH TO TELL THE POLICE ABOUT THIS GANGs…YOUR BRO WILL NOT SUSPECT A THING ABOUT THIS>>>TELL THE POLICE ABOUT THE GANG, NOT ABOUT YOUR BRO OK<<< THIRD IS YOU MUST SACRIFICE OF LETTING YOUR BRO TO BE IN JAIL OR HEPING CENTRE/COUNSELING…THIS IS MY WAY…I HOPE THIS WILL HELP…

Well… You should ask him his reasons behind it and sit down and calmly tell him how you feel. If he loves you he’ll understand where you’re coming from. (I’ve known plenty of people in gangs.) You must know that gangs can be really hard to get out of once someone joins them… Some will even kill you for leaving it. He might not have a choice at this point. You just need to talk to him and then ask another question on his response. COMMUNICATION IS THE KEY.

hes 17! and I canttt he made me swear I wont tell about the gun to my parentss.

Talk to him about it make sure he knows how you feel

tell the truth its the right thing to do