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So Im a junior and my sister is a freshman. She was sleeping on the couch so I decided to look at her phone(I know Im a little nosey), I was thinking I was going to find some stupid funny conversation between friends in her text messages but instead I saw text messages between this guy and her who isnt her boyfriend talking about sex and how shes saying shes been fingered, eaten out, and given blowjobs etc. I mean Im older and I still havent done any of this, and Im a little considered for her, and I really dont know what to do. I dont want to talk to her about it though , but I dont know what my other options are. (Also the guy she was talking to is my age and like 5 years ago I use to be good friends with him until he started drinking haing sex and doing drugs). but I know my sister really doesnt drink or do drugs So what to do???

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Answer #1

I think you should hanlde the situation in a mature way and talk to from as a “BIG SISTER” shes a freshmen and your older than her. Let her know the consequenes for having sex such as what type of diseases you could get. Let her know the pros and cons for her decisions.Talk to her about sex. I dont think you should tell your parents. Talk to her. Be a big sis and let her know you’re concerned .

Answer #2

be a big sis, instead of sayin you want tho her phone just say you heard othr freshman girls tlkin abouth that stuff & you just wntd 2 know is she does any of it. But tell her your fine wit it if she does so she feelz more comfortable 2 tell u. thn giv her advice tell her why you havent done all those things yet (like if you think its dangerous). Plain and simple tell her youre concerned and just wanna make sure she stayz ok

Answer #3

if you dont want to talk to her about it then leave her alone about it.. a lot of freshman lie about that stuff because they want older guys to be into them. even if she isnt lying its not exactly your business, if your concerned enough then just sit her down and say ‘hey I know its wrong but I looked through your phone the other day and saw this _‘ then give her advice on it.. tell her what you think/feel about it

Answer #4

be yourself!!!

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