How do I avoid the sexual situations?

Sooo I am 20 and in college, I am a virgin, in every way possible. I have never done anything. I have a boyfriend now, and we have been friends since we were 13. I been away at school for a month and a couple of weeks. I really miss him and he really misses me. He wants to come up here and visit ,me, but I think that if he comes up here, we might have sex. I don’t want to have sex, yet. I want him to come visit me and spend alone time with him. He does not pressure me into having sex, but he tries. We will start making out and in just turns into more and then gets really “heated” and I’m not sure if I would be able to stop it and say no. So what do I do?

Answer #1

if he respects you, then he will listen and understand when you tell him that you still don’t wish to have sex yet.

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