Am I really ready or is it low self-esteem?

Im talking to this guy an I really like him an we do talk about having sex an I feel like I dont mind losing it to him because he likes me an I like him.But im not that comfortable with my body, but he likes chubby girls well of course lol im chubby so thats why im not really comfortable with mybody but he wants to do it with me,but im nervous because of my body so I just keep making him wait so I was thinking to do it in the night but theres just no way we can because I cant leave my house in the night its only during the day were with each other an hes not a virgin an I am an I kinda want a virgin for my first time so I dont know what to do he bearly lost it himself so he still is a rookie to having intercourse but I dont know what I should do I like him I feel like im ready I really dont mind that hes not a virgin we’ve been talking for about four months we go out party movies to my moms house we’ve fooled around but nothing to serious so what should I do should I do it even though im not comfortable with my body but I feel ready for sex but im just not comfortable with myself.

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Honey there is now reason for you to be ashamed of your body.. everyone is beautiful not matter there size.. If you truly want to have sex with this boy and you feel comfortable with him and him with you.. then I say go for it.. Once you start you will not think about your body.. if he is dating you then he likes you and your body just the way you are..

if you choose to have sex with this young man PLEASE us a condom..

I hope this helps

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