Am I addicted to sex?

ok since I wrote this, I havent done anything with anyone. not even kiss. so I know im not addicted to it. I think I was just going through a time where I thought I needed to be with someone physically. but now I know thts not true. I have better things to do.

I think that you should find a really nice guy or girl and mess around with them because its kinda wierd just messing around with other people and its sooo much better if you mess around with someone you actually like!!! Sexymimi xxx

By the sounds of it you have the potential to become one, if you went ahead and actually messed around with different people, yes. You need to control these feelings though so you don’t end up with a bad rep.

personally, I believe as long as you’re safe with your sex, there’s less to worry about. as far as being “addicted”, there’s way worse things you could be addicted to.

There is nothing wrong with having a friend you “mess around” with but when it’s different people that’s when it becomes dangerous. If you aren’t ready for a relationship and want some fun, that’s fine, but you should try to stick that fun with one specific person (or since you’re bi, 2 specific people) :)

You just need to make sure that person knows you aren’t looking for a relationship before hand because I’m sure you don’t want to lead them on.