Dad has decided he doesnt like my boyfriend

do whatever makes you happy. think of what could happen. and just go for it. lifes not complicated once you get down to one question: whats the best for you?

I’d trust your dads judgment, he knows what he’s talking about because he probably looks at your boyfriend and can see right through him. its a gift that several guys have, they know exacly what type of person another male is just by talking to em for five minutes. I have it, and im not being arrogant, im serious.

Ok so have you considered that your dad is not an insane person and therefore did not randomly decide to start disliking your boyfriend? Maybe he knows something or has seen your boyfriend do something that he simply does not want to tell you about? I’m not saying he is right, but it is possible he has his reasons… Calling him a predator sounds like an excuse, try and get to the root of why he doesnt want you going out with him… (he may not tell you, father’s perogative unfortunately, but he may decide to share his concerns with you…) Tell him you want to make an informed decision and you value his opinion, you just want to know why he thinks the way he does…

ok what I would do is not bring up your boyfriend at all.

my mothers being excatly the same. your farther is being protective because thats what dads and mams do!

but aslong as your boyfriend isnt pushing you into anything whats the problem? your farther wil repect you more if you sit down and explain to him “look dad, I know he’s had sex, doesnt mean hes going to force me into it I’ll do it when im ready and I’m not. and to be honest I’d probably tell you if we did because I want to have a relationship with you where, we can just be open”

give him all that crap and he’ll be fine seriously x

trust your dad, becase e’s been there,