How can I control this urge for another man?

I know how you feel. The urge is really strong expecially when you’re not being treated right by the other party. But trust me you don’t want to start something else until you finsh what you are in. I understand that it won’t work you’ve tried to talk to your husband and he’s not going to change. But do yourself a favor and end it first the guilt of cheating on him will kill you even more than the want to be with this new man. The guy will still be there once you’re free to be with other people. Keep him as a close friend, you can’t have too many. But also, most rebound relationships don’t usually work. So if you really like this new guy think about it first. I was married 15 years come June 20th to a guy that could have cared less if I’d fell off the face of the earth. I was never sure why he’d ask me to marry him. I think I was just another object to him. It took me just about the same amount of time to realize that I didn’t want to be in a loveless relationship for the rest of my life and to get out. My divorce hearings in less than a week and I can’t wait. Now don’t get me wrong I loved being married and being a wife but not to the man I was married to. I can’t wait to be married again and I’m praying this time it’s to the right guy. Just make sure he will do for you what you’re willing to do for him. That was some good advice that was given to me several months ago. Good luck. And if you do desided to go ahead with this affair know that you’re not the first person and not the last the flesh is weak and ask for forgiveness and stregnth to resist it will always work. Hang in there relationships are a lot of work. And remember too the grass always looks greener on the other side until you get there most of the time. The chase is always the fun part.