How can I stop thinking about another man?

You have to control it. If you love your husband, he loves you, and you take care of one another that should be enough. And if he’s exciting. If your husband bores you, make life exciting. Do something wild. Go to New Zealand! You should do more bonding with your family to make yourself appreciate what you have again.

What I think you should do., Is do something romantic with your husband and get this other guy out of your mind he has a girl friend and needs to be with her as much as you need to be with your husband. I am only 13 but I still hope you take my advise. Also please answer my question that I need advise on. Hope it all works out!!!

Its normal what you are experiencing, becos you married young and have only been with your husband, you are having normal thoughts about another man and wondering about something you have never done.

But you must think about the consequences if you even think about pursuing this. Good thing he no longer works with you, if you want to do the right thing then stop contacting him and dont answer his emails, if the temptation is there it will be harder. And you will pass this phase. Its a lot easier if you dont speak to him again.